I’ve been resisting writing about my latest vacation escape. Not because it wasn’t memorable—quite the opposite. But I just can’t get it out of my mind, so I needed to share. I went to New Jersey. When I told my friends I was going to The Garden State, they quickly remarked with visualizations of smokestacks, unattractive clusters of tall buildings, and traffic congestion. Why go there, they asked?
I, too, wasn’t sure what to expect, but I was curious to see it for myself, especially since my dear cousin, Ali, lives there. Turns out, I cannot wait to return! (And I experienced none of the above-mentioned negatives!)
Here’s what this California girl found enchanting in this nature land.
- In Ali’s backyard: the cicadas hiding in the thick, towering pine and oak trees, their soothing song intensifying and then receding. A hawk soaring overhead. A special tree with branches twisting like an old woman’s fingers, giving birth to an umbrella of graceful limbs adorned with pistachio-colored leaves. Ahhh—to have a backyard like this…
Creek in Ali’s backyard. 
Backyard sunset - The many farm stands lining the stretches of country roads with ripe red tomatoes, fresh picked corn, and watermelon luring us in. Baskets of pink and orange hued peaches ready for pies.
- The big, bold, and colorful flowers only make an appearance during the warm summer months.
Sunflowers shine on New Jersey! - The wineries—really!- are intermittently scattered between the farm stands. The winemakers offer friendly hospitality and affordable tastings of decent wine. In the evenings, concerts and trivia nights entertain the locals at Brook Hollow Winery, and twice monthly, they have yoga in the vineyards!
Brook Hollow Winery, New Jersey 
- Tree-lined country roads took us everywhere. Deer sightings!
- Ali’s street, where within a half mile, you can buy fresh eggs, local, grass-fed beef, pick your own fruit, and immerse your senses in the rich herbal scents of lavender at Orchard View Lavender Farm. Ali- you are a lucky girl!
- The light-hearted M & M signs that made me smile in Hackettstown, home of M & M’s and Mars candy.
M&M Twins, Hackettstown, New Jersey - Hiking the Delaware Water Gap. Traversing rocks to climb to the top, in the mist for a spectacular view of the snaking Delaware River.
Water Gap Trail 
Water Gap view, shared with Ali and Harry 
A view worth climbing for! - Experiencing Waterloo Village, an 1831 canal town barely restored but expansive and lush with very few visitors other than us. Fun to peek in the windows of deserted old houses! A little paradise.
Waterloo Village, New Jersey 
Deserted house 
Waterloo Bridge 
I have a fascination with old wooden houses! Who lived here? - Dinner AND Brunch at James on Main, Ali’s favorite local restaurant. In the truest sense of the word, this intimate farm-to-table restaurant uses all locally and seasonally sourced meats and produce. We ate at the counter facing the kitchen to observe our meals being assembled. I loved how the cooks took care to use tongs to gently plate the salads and side dishes, tucking bits of spinach back into place just so, or perking up a fig to expose her tiger flesh. I could go on and on about my dining experiences here, it was that fabulous. Perfectionists to a “t.” The friendly and talented staff made us feel like family, and the food was simply delicious. Somehow, I just can’t seem to find places like this in San Diego.
Brunch eggs all decked out. 
James on Main briny oysters with character and flavor. 
James on Main exquisite desserts.
Yes, the East Coast has won me over. Could these good vibes be the reason for this particularly relaxing vacation? I just can’t get over the intense green farmland, vast forests, and tranquility that surrounded us daily. Now I know why it’s called The Garden State. I’ve put my reservation in for next year. Thank you, Ali, and Harry the dog, for sharing your wonderland with me. I loved every minute!
For a great website that gives 100 ideas for places to visit in New Jersey, read this article in Your RV Lifestyle. After reading it, I am even more inspired to return and explore this beautiful state!
“Why does everyone make fun of New Jersey? It’s beautiful here,” she said.
“We live in America.”
“What does that mean?”
“People like to judge without knowing.”
― The Color of Home
Ciao for now,
what a beautiful love letter to the East Coast Beauty………….. it reminded me of a childhood trip Pat and I were able to make to New York wherein I visited with Uncle Jim and Aunt Blanche in Nyack NY – then to their Xmas tree Farm in Utica NY full of natural beauty…………….that was followed up with a trip to Rochester NY to Aunt Mary and Uncle Elmers’ home……………I remember how impressed I was of their beautiful tudor style home with travels to Niagra Falls and Lake Champlaign (I think that was the lake). Your pics overlooking the water in NJ reminded me of that. I also wonder who would have occupied the ghostly home deserted — too bad and sad that no one is there to once again love it bringing it back to life……………. thanks so much for reigniting my good memories of when I was 12,,,perhaps Ali would adopt me……ha ha —- luv you dear cuz
Hi Mary,
What a beautiful write-up on your New Jersey visit. You found all the secret beauties of the place, thank you for sharing such glorious photos! Someday I will head east – if only I could make it past Texas!
Cheers,
Jolie
Jane, the lake is Lake Ontario. I have visited all the places you mentioned. New Jersey was never on my radar. Mary, you have awakened a desire to see what holds so many to this Garden State. When enjoying the delights of summer, the memory of a dismal winter dims. Thanks for your “love letter” about your recent travels.
Thank you Jane! I’m so glad this story revived fond memories. I always learn so much when I go to new places. I guess I’m just a nature girl at heart! XXOO
Thanks Mamabird! I do “love” a lot of places! New Jersey was really special and touched me deeply. Can’t wait to return! XXOO
Thanks Jolie! I appreciate your comments. The east coast is full of surprises! I love the diversity it offers and all the undeveloped open land. It’s like a detox from city life! XXOO
Dear Mary,
This piece is, to use a metaphor, a breath of fresh air. You capture the charm of robust, sustainable, simple living in a most beautiful setting. Your cousin must love it, and it’s great you plan to go back next year. Thank you for reminding us to pay attention to the smallest details every day and to draw on all of our senses. Also, if you cannot find a place like James on Main in San Diego, you have hit on an amazing opportunity for someone!
Warmly,
Linda
THANK YOU……. ON SO MANY LEVELS!!!
Thank you Jill! XXOO
Thank you Linda! I love your comment on drawing on all our senses. It was a sensory experience in every “sense” of the word – ha!
Lovely! Thanks for this. You never know what locations will be inspirational.
Years ago I had time for a short vacation but didn’t have much money and decided to take road trip. I closed my eyes, put my finger on the map and it landed on Death Valley. I laughed. Sounded ominous but it was one of the most beautiful and memorable of trips ever.
Thank you Jill! Often those places that may seem uncomfortable, hold the best secrets! XXOO
From your 2nd cousin in NJ’s sister state – PA. I grew up in Valley Cottage, NY and have been a Pennsylvanian for 64 years, living on the northern and southern borders of New Jersey all my life. It’s lovely to see home territory through your eyes and to totally agree with your perceptions. Thank you for your journey through the center of the Garden State. I hope you’ll make it across the Delaware River next time you come. Soon this Snowbird will be flying to Florida for the winter, but when I get homesick for the N.E. I’ll reread your love story and smile. XOXOXOXOf
Lovely to see such an eloquent description of my home state. Where were you?
I was in Oxford, near Hacketsville. Way out in the country! Going back again this August for another fix. XXOO